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Ultimately, you create your own life. YOU decide what to spend your energy on - creation or destruction, love or hate, hobbies or boredom. YOU give yourself a setting for positive or negative ... No matter what anyone tells you - only YOUR choice is to listen to them or not ... And do not blame your failures on the fact that “it just happened” or “not fate”: you are not a train, moving on rails, and not tied to the path of life that you are walking now, so that at any moment you can turn off it and choose any of the thousands of others! ..

In youth, it seems to a person that for happiness it is necessary to surround himself with visible things - a house, a car, a dacha, a beautiful wife - all this can be felt and demonstrated to society, and the invisible - what is called true happiness, remains unmanifested. But this understanding only comes with age.

You need to cross out people not with a simple pencil - so that you can erase the crossed out and start all over again - but with a black marker that leaves no way back. And not only from life, but from the head and from the heart - too. Stop hurting yourself. You really can do it. Or someone here wants to suffer to their heart's content? Well, then welcome to the Club of those who can not break with their past.

Everyone is the blacksmith of his own happiness, and I cannot, without forging
(Folk wisdom)

Everyone definitely wants to be happy. The princess in the tower sighs: “Oh, if the prince drove up on a white horse with all-wheel drive” (otherwise, for some reason, all nearby princes have drives only to the police). The count polishes his bald head so that it shines no worse than the chrome wheels of a non-royal, but quite thoroughbred horse, and thinks: “Oh, if only the princess would lie down with me.” And the smuggler is waiting for a couple more products to be included in the sanctions list so that he can equip the ship to Europe and get rich, otherwise everything is somehow lacking time because of one jamon with parmesan to dangle.

And for some reason, everyone thinks that when that very thing finally happens, they will instantly find the long-awaited joy of being, spiritually enlightened, fall into endless nirvana and begin to live differently. Well, in the meantime, nothing is happening, you can also lose heart, diluting inaction with sweet dreams about if ...

And if they really wanted to, they would have done it long ago. Get out of the tower, put on a deeper neckline and go to a ball in a neighboring kingdom. Finally, approach the princess and invite her to take a walk to the nearest bar with moderately expensive cognac (what if she agrees? You didn’t offer it even once!). Gather strength and start your own business. Anything. It is pointless to wait for a sign from above - it will not be.

Someone quite wise noticed that our life is 90% dependent on ourselves and 10% on circumstances that are 99% dependent on us. Simple math makes it clear that the only one who can properly manage your life is you. As for how many hunters there are to dispose of it, that's another story. The mother-in-law wants a daughter-in-law who has two higher educations, wears floor-length skirts and goes to church every Sunday. The boss wants an employee who doesn't ask for a raise, goes out on the weekend, and stays late after the day is over. Lover wants blowjob with songs. The wife wants a fur coat like Lyubochka's and a vacation in Nice. And what do you want yourself?

There is nothing worse than subordinating life to other people's desires and advice. Skillful or even quite clumsy manipulations, repeated over and over again, do their dirty work: first you make a couple of nice little concessions. Then you finally go out of your way and adjust to your pocket guru, whether you wanted such a manager for yourself or not, and then the funniest thing happens. You stop doing anything to make your dream come true, sometimes thinking: “How nice it would be.”

Guess what will happen next? There are really two options: either you suddenly find that you are retiring next year, but you weren’t going to skydive, didn’t have children, didn’t go to see the sunrises in Iceland. Or you just stop wanting anything at all.

Both outcomes are rather unpleasant. “Life in general is rarely a pleasant thing,” the skeptic will say at this moment. And it will be wrong. Life is rarely a pleasant thing for someone who attributes everything to circumstances and listens to other people's advice. And those “lucky ones” and “favorites” of Fortune, whom everyone envy, because everything is going so well for them, in fact, they simply accept their coordinate system, where in the center are their “I”, their desires and their dignity, and begin reshape this world for yourself. And, you know, they do it.

Two simple rules - "do what you want yourself" and "if you want - do it, and do not write off the circumstances" - they are the key to a good life. Being happy is easier than it seems.

“Just about the main thing” - quotes OLega Roy

… Only after having lived more than half of your life, you understand that you should not tell everyone in a row about your troubles, because there are usually much more gloating than sympathizers. But even less often it is worth talking about your happiness, because the number of envious people will always prevail over the number of those who are ready to be sincerely happy for you. So, let silence be the best friend of my happiness!

Love, as they say, is blind, and this is true. When a person is deeply in love, he is not inclined to notice half a ton of flaws in his beloved, sometimes dissolving in a gram of his virtues. When you meet a person only in the evenings in a restaurant or on weekends for a romantic walk, you don’t care that he, for example, is a creepy slob at home, an impractical host, or cannot live without computer games. Not every woman agrees with tenderness to collect men's socks in the corners of the rooms, while the missus will “wet the killers” and “get involved in adventures” in the virtual space. It seems to be banality, a small human weakness ... But, like a wormhole in an apple, it corrodes a marriage from the inside.

It only at first seems that you can close your eyes to the shortcomings, but even a bear spends only part of its life in hibernation. From all this "good" it will not be possible to fence off or move away. You will have to accept the person as he is with his whole family of cockroaches.

Everything can be experienced in this life, as long as there is something to live for, someone to love, someone to take care of and someone to believe.

Before you worry about someone else's opinion or because someone is disappointed in you, just ask yourself: is the meaning of your life is to live up to other people's expectations ...

“A man in a skirt” is no longer a Scot or a transvestite, this is a Russian woman who is used to taking on everything - both family and work.

You should never tell a person that he is weak or wrong in some way. He can believe and it will break his life. It is better to always say only good things about everyone. There is enough bad around.

What an irony, isn't it: after all, usually it is not the enemy, not the spiteful critic, who causes the greatest pain, but the one who only yesterday promised to give you happiness.

... There are seven deadly sins: anger, envy, lust, gluttony, pride, greed, despondency. Without risking challenging the classical religious concept (and hurting the feelings of believers), I, nevertheless, in my personal rating, put indifference in the first place among all sins. Because it really is a terrible thing. Indifference kills feelings. Any.

Men call women the weaker sex, although they are defenseless only during the drying of painted nails.

… After all, people once lived without cell phones! And nothing: we talked, made appointments, and even - amazingly! - managed not to miss each other. The phone call was a whole ritual, almost a sacrament - you need to get two kopecks, find a machine gun, often wait your turn ... And now everything is fast, clear and simplified to the point of disgust. Declaration of love - one word in a text message. Congratulations on the holiday - in the finished text of the postcard. Letter - three short phrases via email. We don't have time, that's not true. We are lazy. So it turns out that laziness, in the end, steals from us almost the most important, most precious thing - communication with loved ones, with people dear to our hearts ...

… But how few people in the world are ready to love us for who we really are. Love is not for some achievements and merits. Not for a beautiful body or a fat wallet. Not for useful connections or profitable prospects... Love is not a convenient thing, a status accessory or a fictitious image. And just love. To love you, the REAL. Imperfect and, at times, completely incomprehensible. To love with all your doubts, shortcomings and troubles. To love and accept, without trying to change and remake ...
And if there are such people in your life, then, whoever they are, cherish them!

… Oh, to get a special device - put it on like a bracelet on your hand or even fasten it to the very heart, and so that everything bad, evil, terrible would be filtered out by itself! It would be great if unpleasant people, bad news, other people's envy, resentment and disappointment did not pass into our soul. Too bad they didn't come up with this. And what are these scientists doing who invent new weapons, selfie sticks, text recognition technologies, but have not come up with a gadget that could make our life easier, cloudless and happier. Soul filter.

There is such a common expression "give yourself away to people." And this is considered good, a person who does this is called selfless, kind, generous. He gives himself to others without demanding or expecting anything in return... And he himself does not notice the moment when "giving away" turns into "squandering"... Of course, it is imperative to live not only for yourself, but also for others, to help those who need in your help, who really needs you. But, unfortunately, there are many people hiding among these people who only use you cynically. And, what is most unpleasant, they often very cleverly disguise themselves as loving and devoted friends ...

What a luxury it is to be who you are, without the eternal desire to get excellent grades for it.

Only when a real misfortune happens in life, do you begin to realize what insignificant trifles were all that was previously considered a tragedy.

Following the path of life, you need to learn to leave behind without regret everything that makes your path forward difficult: bad memories and old grievances, past mistakes and past disappointments, and most importantly, people who have proven by their words and deeds that you are no longer comfortable with them. way...

While men are chasing imaginary victories and boasting of trifling achievements, women are bringing new life into the world.

We are afraid to be friends because we are afraid to be betrayed. I know many people, burned by betrayal, who, in order to avoid a repetition of events, have pets for themselves - understanding and silent dogs, cats or talking parrots - it all depends on fantasy. Funny if it wasn't so sad. People lose not each other, but first of all themselves...

I just want to enjoy life! I don’t want to be rude, scandalous and prove something to someone, I don’t want to waste time communicating with those who are unpleasant to me, with people who don’t understand me, and trying to get through to them. I don't want to try to fit my thoughts into someone else's head. I am busy! I want to live my (!!!) present. I just want to LIVE! Enjoy every moment, every smile of a passerby, every day, regardless of whether it is sunny or rainy. And I really don’t want to exchange this amazing life for emptiness, trifles and nonsense ...

Remember: no matter how old you are, this is the most suitable age to Love, Dream and Enjoy Life!

... You can read many wise aphorisms in books and the Internet, learn them by heart and even hang them on the wall. But they will acquire true meaning for you only after you are convinced of the truth of the words from your own experience. © Oleg Roy

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Today I have prepared for you a huge selection of very interesting aphorisms by the famous Russian writer Oleg Roy. In it you will find both personal statements of the writer and quotes from Oleg Roy's books.

I am sure that Oleg Roy's quotes will give answers to your questions and help you reconsider some of your views on life and family relationships.

Oleg Roy: quotes

With real men who are ready to put their passport under seal, in our world things are exactly the same as with high-quality and environmentally friendly food. "A woman and a man"

A woman, especially a married woman, mostly cheats not “for”, but “in spite of”: he cheated on me - I will repay him in the same coin.

When a woman hears a couple of dry monosyllabic “compliments” instead of a string of admiring epithets, she perceives them as the highest degree of disrespect. "A woman and a man"

It seems that every woman strives to be unique and unique - and at the same time they do everything to look almost the same and smell the same fragrance. "Man and woman. Secrets of family happiness "

Worse than a scandal for a man can only be the phrase “we need to talk”, always preceding what they are afraid of like fire, namely, a showdown. "Web of Lies"

Men call women the weaker sex, although they are defenseless only during the drying of painted nails. "A woman and a man"

The fact that a woman does not say anything for a while means, as a rule, one thing - she is angry. Most likely the man next to him. "Man and woman. Secrets of family happiness "

Most often, luck is not a manifestation of the mercy of fortune and not a gift from heaven, but merit - the result of one's own abilities and efforts. "Web of Lies"

Everything can be experienced in this life, as long as there is something to live for, someone to love, someone to take care of and someone to believe. "Peace Over the Abyss"

Only with a child we are given a chance to return to the magical world: re-read fairy tales, watch children's films and see the world in bright colors. "A woman and a man"

Everything starts with a clean slate... And it doesn't matter that most of the life notebook has long been written out. Each of your new steps is the next chapter in the book of your destiny, the author of which you yourself are. "Man and woman. Secrets of family happiness "

If you feel bad or difficult, find someone who is worse and more difficult than you, and help him. "Web of Lies"

What a luxury it is to be who you are, without the eternal desire to get an excellent mark for it. "Peace Over the Abyss"

Instead of living, loving, transforming, people get bored and fuss.

Makes us take a step back and give up the best in favor of the known. "A woman and a man"

A man in love should not lose himself. On the contrary, the meaning of a great feeling is in the fulfillment and saturation of life. "Man and woman. Secrets of family happiness "

Life is too short to waste it on despondency, and too many-sided. It has enough reasons for joy and deeds that no one can do but you. "Web of Lies"

It's amazing how long you can look for yourself. Not in some philosophical sense, but simply yourself - that real, living, immediate being that disappears in childhood and returns with wisdom and maturity. "Peace Over the Abyss"

People don't know how to live. They worry that they are mortal, but ... give them eternity and they will only grumble and express dissatisfaction - that's all. "Trap for the Master of Destiny"

One of the biggest mistakes is to think that after the wedding, "my lifestyle should become ours." Inability and unwillingness to understand that the other person is really different. And he also has the right to his own tastes, views and habits, just like you yourself. And the only way to find harmony and happiness in family relationships is a constant mutual compromise.

As they were and remain, the main project of our life is a mirror that reflects our inner world. "A woman and a man"

Worthless is the man who does not know how and, moreover, does not want to work and earn. "Man and woman. Secrets of family happiness "

You should never tell a person that he is weak or wrong in some way. He can believe and it will break his life. It is better to always say only good things about everyone. There is enough bad around. "Peace Over the Abyss"

A strange and incomprehensible thing is love! She exists in this world as long as a person lives, but still remains a mystery. "Trap for the Master of Destiny"

As long as a woman develops, discovers new things in herself and in the world around her, as long as she is interesting to herself, she will be interesting to a man too!

Remember that no one knows if tomorrow will come. Live now! At this moment. At this moment! "Web of Lies"

Value loyalty! This is the most precious quality in love, in friendship, and in life...

Life is, in fact, a very pleasant thing. If you take a good look at her. Assess what is really important and what is rubbish.

(c) Oleg Roy "Masquerade for seven people"

Everyone is afraid. Do not believe if they say that they are not afraid - they lie. And there is nothing to be ashamed of. Do you think that if someone is not afraid, then he is smart or brave? He's just a fool. Only fools are not afraid of anything ...

© Oleg Roy "The Secret"

After all, it’s really warm when friends are around! When you can sit together in a cozy house, drink hot tea and chat about all sorts of nonsense. And this warm state has nothing to do with the weather or heating ...

(c) Oleg Roy "7 Signs of Happiness"

None of us are immune from mistakes. Everyone can stumble: to say in a rush, to do it without thinking, to offend without understanding ... And even though not everything can be forgiven, sometimes a person just needs to be given a chance, because sometimes it is a small chance that can change a whole life ..

In my opinion, it is impossible to live to see a golden wedding with a mistress. Only possible with a friend. No matter how strong a passion based only on sex, it will still pass. And the feeling of affection, an extraordinary need for each other, when you can’t live a day without the familiar shuffling of slippers on the floor - this is the key to long-term family happiness.

When love is just being born, then both, HE and SHE, are one hundred percent sure that this time everything will be different, that this bright feeling will not disappear like smoke, but will remain in their souls forever, "until the death separates us". But several years pass, or even months - and "eternal" love passes, as if it never existed. Love is dying. But who is to blame for this? Probably ourselves. We are too accustomed to obsessing over the bad, not seeing the good, we are too rational about what we just need to feel, we are too focused on ourselves, and not on the one who is next to us. We are getting used to. And we forget to be sincere, we forget to please each other, we forget to cherish each other and appreciate every moment spent together.

Lord, what nonsense proverbs and sayings sometimes bring us. I’m tired of listening to hackneyed wisdom on every occasion and without it: “A man is a head, and a woman is a neck, where the neck turns, the head will look there.” By the way, an amusing coincidence, but for some reason I have never heard it from men. So, my dear women: since the head is smart and endowed with the ability to think, feel, create, no matter what you say to it, desires and thoughts will not disappear from it. And command and control has never led to happiness, and it would be ridiculous if the parts of the human body suddenly declared a secret war on each other, fighting for leadership, trying to subdue each other, such an organism would not be able to function. In addition, if we compare, a woman is not a neck! WOMAN - HEART, which nourishes the brain with oxygen, blood, energy. That is why he thinks for the good and in the name of his beloved woman, mother, daughter ... And the ram needs a neck, which turns its head from side to side and looks at everything as if it were a new gate.

There are women who are dazzling, there are charming, and there are just lovely. They don't change such cute people for anyone. Any beauties fade next to a pretty woman.

© Oleg Roy "The world over the abyss"

Long-legged in our age attach a completely inexplicable meaning. The whole world has definitely forgotten that a woman should not be long-legged, but simply tender and amazing.

© Oleg Roy "Husband, wife, mistress"

A woman knows how to benefit from any number in her passport, and is always sure that her best years are yet to come.

Such is the fate of a modern woman - every second you have to fight for your happiness, otherwise you will miss the moment - and there will be nothing to fight for ...

© Oleg Roy"The man in the window opposite"

Every woman, no matter how practical and cynical she tries to seem, is by nature a very vulnerable and romantic creature who dreams of being loved ...

© Oleg Roy "Hug to survive"

For a woman in love, men are clearly divided into two classes: HE and everyone else.

© Oleg Roy "Web of Lies"

A woman is always a woman. And sometimes she wants to scream, to beat her head against the wall, she wants love, tenderness, warmth. And I want to have the closest and dearest creature - a child.

© Oleg Roy "The Secret"

A woman, brother, that's what a woman is for, sometimes to say stupid things ... and to do it.

© Oleg Roy "Daughters-mothers, or holidays in Atyashevo"

New Year's Eve, like a magical time machine, can return even the most inveterate skeptics to childhood. Decorated Christmas trees of incredible beauty, bright illumination on the streets, and most importantly - the vibes of a miracle and fairy tales floating in the air - they are indistinguishable to the eye, but are felt by every string of the soul. And, even if you don’t believe in Santa Claus for a long time, you just want to make the craziest wish and believe with all your heart that it will come true!